“I am so very grateful to our Marian Helper family for their many prayers and support, not just for me but for all of our seminarians. God bless you all.”
By Dr. Joe McAleer
The Marian Fathers of the Immaculate Conception are proud to announce that Deacon Stephen Castellano, MIC, will be ordained to the priesthood on Saturday, May 18, the feast day of the Marian Founder, St. Stanislaus Papczyński.
The ordination Mass will be celebrated at 11 a.m. ET ar Deacon Castellano's home parish, St. John Neumann Catholic Church in Gaithersburg, Maryland. The Most. Rev. Martin D. Holley, bishop emeritus of the Diocese of Memphis, will be the celebrant.
The Ordination Mass will be livestreamed on YouTube, beginning at 11 a.m. ET.
Growing up close to church
A native of Montgomery Village, Maryland, Dcn. Stephen, 33, is one of seven children of Ellen and Anthony (Tony) Castellano. He credits the foundation of his vocation to his parents, and an upbringing steeped in the Catholic faith.
“When I was seven years old, we moved next door to the church, St. John Neumann,” Dcn. Stephen recalls. “It is literally a stone’s throw from our house. So I grew up physically close to the church and in time became more spiritually tied to it.”
Attending the parish youth group during high school had a big impact. “It was a very good way to be immersed in the faith during the formative years,” he says. “We had great catechesis, but also a lot of fun.”
Years later, Dcn. Stephen, like all Marian seminarians, had to take on a pastoral ministry assignment during his theological studies. He had proposed to, and was encouraged by, his formators to return to St. John Neumann to minister to that same youth group.
“It was fascinating to go back now as a leader, to see the new generation coming up, and to observe how the Lord works in young souls,” he says. “The challenge is to keep kids grounded in prayer.”
Before the start of meetings and Eucharistic Adoration, the youth ministry team brought out a wooden box, which came to be known as the “cellphone jail.”
“Getting downtime with God is really important for young people,” he explains. “Surrendering the cellphones encourages focus on the present moment and each other. It’s a good practice for kids.”
Marian vocation
During his college years at Mount Saint Mary’s University in Emmitsburg, Maryland, Dcn. Stephen’s spiritual life deepened, forming a foundation upon which he was able later to hear God calling him to the priesthood. Regular prayer and daily Mass, Bible studies, and making like-minded friends through FOCUS (Fellowship of Catholic University Students) sharpened his focus.
“I found I was growing closer to Mary in my spiritual life,” Dcn. Stephen recalls. “Making a discernment retreat in Steubenville, Ohio, with Fr. Donald Calloway gave me a good glimpse of religious life and had a positive impact. I felt a particular calling to be a 'Marian' priest, even though at the time I didn’t know exactly how that was going to look.”
Deacon Stephen joined the Marians in 2018. “It has truly been a total joy from day one,” he admits. “The time has flown by.”
The White Habit
During his profession of perpetual vows on Aug. 16, 2023, then-Br. Stephen was invested with the white habit, the first Marian in our province to receive this since the Marian Congregation recently approved its revival after a 100-year hiatus.
The white habit was retired at the beginning of the twentieth century when Bl. George Matulaitis undertook the Renovation of the Marian Congregation. Adopting the black attire of diocesan priests meant that Marians would blend in and not suffer persecution from Russia.
“Honestly, receiving the white habit is like a dream come true,” Dcn. Stephen says. “We finally have a distinguishing religious garment, different from the common clerical garb of diocesan priests. The color white also highlights in a very specific way our charism, which is the mystery of the Immaculate Conception. Our founder, St. Stanislaus Papczynski, from the very beginning gave us this habit as a sign of our spiritual identity, which is grounded in Mary’s Immaculate Conception. And so the habit is a sign to the Church and to the world of who we are.”
Deacon Stephen has decided to wear the white habit daily, an option for all perpetually-professed Marian priests and brothers. “I feel connected to our spiritual patrimony, and to the Marians who wore this for the first 200 years of our existence,” he says. “Some people have stopped me and asked about it, so it’s also a good opportunity for evangelization.”
First Mass
Newly-ordained Fr. Stephen will celebrate his first Mass at St. John Neumann Catholic Church on Sunday, May 19, at 11:30 a.m. ET. The Mass will be livestreamed on YouTube.
“I am so very grateful to our Marian Helper family for their many prayers and support, not just for me but for all of our seminarians," says Dcn. Stephen. "God bless you all.”
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